A Race Issue?

March 28, 2012

The past couple weeks have seen headlines littered with updates on the Trayvon Martin tragedy.  For those of you who live under a rock, Trayvon Martin was an unarmed teenager who was inexplicably pursued by George Zimmerman, a self-proclaimed neighborhood watch volunteer, and killed following a confrontation.  As of this writing, Zimmerman still has not been charged and remains free.  I’ve been moved by the nationwide rallies and demands for justice, particularly because so much of it is based on race.

Over the past few years in Philadelphia, there have been a raft of robberies targeting Korean business owners.  Clearly, word is spreading amongst criminal circles that Korean-American business owners often have large amounts of cash on them, or hidden in their homes.  Criminals have followed their targets after work to learn where they live, then devised plans for home invasions.  These burglaries, which have led to several murders and much hysteria, have shaken the Korean-American community in Philadelphia.  What should be done about all of these unthinkable crimes?  How do we protect ourselves?

More and more, I find my fellow Korean-Americans arming themselves, ready to protect themselves and their families if shit goes down.  I’m not opposed to second amendment, but believe there are other precautions we can take to protect ourselves.  Speaking in absolute generalities, Koreans too often claim victim and are uncompromising in their ways.  We are quick to blame others and don’t find any fault in our own actions.  When I remind folks that the reason Koreans keep so much cash on them is to avoid paying taxes (a crime in itself), I see and hear looks and tones of disgust.  It’s clear most folks would rather strap up than change their cash hoarding ways.  The result – I’ve been feeling a lot more racial tension, particularly in the form of anger towards blacks (nearly all of the accused have been black).

Full disclosure- I’ve been away from Philadelphia for a few years and haven’t had to live in or work in “the ghetto” for a long time.  So perhaps it’s been too easy for me to forget the racial tension between Koreans and blacks in some of these neighborhoods.  But I believe the hoodlums who are doing the robberies are not targeting Koreans because they are Korean, but because of Korean business practices. This isn’t an issue of race, as much as it’s an issue of all parties trying to take shortcuts.  No, it’s not a crime to keep tens of thousands of dollars in cash at home, but if we are doing it to hide it from Uncle Sam, then we’re asking for trouble.  Maybe I live in a fantasy land on the set of The Wire, but I bet drug dealers get robbed all the time, and we just don’t know about it.  Where there is a lot of cash, unmarked and hidden from the authorities, there will be trouble.

Let’s remember the fallen by learning from their mistakes.  Instead of getting more guns, installing more security cameras, and buying better safes, let’s start to do business more legitimately.  Let’s stop looking at ourselves as innocent victims, but as people who can do more to protect ourselves.  Let’s save the claims of racial profiling to cases where they are much more warranted, like in the case of Trayvon Martin.

Let the Mike Vick in Philadelphia Era Begin

August 17, 2009

Oh Mike, how you’ve stirred up controversy in Philadelphia.  With the simple act of putting pen to paper,  you’ve taken talk radio, newspapers, and discussion boards by storm and have stirred up some heated debates.  Some are outraged, others are indifferent, none will be ecstatic (at least not publicly).  Count me as curious.  As we embark upon the journey that is the Eagles 2009 season, let us prepare ourselves for the inevitable media circus that will follow you and your every move this year.  I’m fascinated to see how this whole thing will pan out.  You’re under a microscope- show us something good.  At least on the field.

For those of you who aren’t paying ANY attention, Mike Vick signed with the Eagles last Thursday.  This is the man who spent the past two years in prison after pleading guilty to dog-fighting charges.  He was stripped of his league-high $132 million contract and worked for pennies an hour during his time in Leavenworth.  Earlier this summer, NFL commissioner Roger Godell suspended him for six games in the upcoming season.  Despite all of this, the Philadelphia Eagles signed Vick and agreed to the deal with the resulting media circus/PR debacle.  Immediately, I started receiving text messages from folks who were curious to hear a die-hard fan’s opinion on the matter.  After my initial shock, I’ve gone back and forth on my opinion.  It’s not a simple situation but my stance is this: why not?  Let’s see what’s he’s got.

Owner Jeff Lurie says that he’ll judge the signing on Vick’s contributions off the field in the community, rather than by what he provides between the lines.  That’s BS.  No owner needs to take on a potential $9 million social project.  He’s not in the business of redeeming social outcasts.  He’s in the business of winning football games and delivering championships to his clients- the Philadelphia fans.  None of that matters though.  Of course that’s what he needed to say.  No PR person in his/her right mind would allow Lurie to go up and say this was all about football.  Lurie absolutely needed to say what he said.  Vick will need to be seen in the community advocating for animal rights, making public appearances at rallies, speaking to youth about the dangers of such endeavors.  There will forever be Vick haters but the only way to win over anyone is to make good on these promises.  But make no mistake about it- this signing is absolutely, undoubtedly, 100% about football.  He is unquestionably a great athlete capable of amazing plays on the field.  He will surely give the Eagles another weapon to add to their already dynamic offense.  So to that, again, I say, why not?

In the court of public opinion, it seems Vick has already been sentenced to a lifetime of scrutiny, harassment, embarrassment, and hatred.  No matter what he does from here on out, there will always be people who hate Mike Vick and will never forgive him.  Since his release from prison, he’s pleaded for forgiveness from the public.  He’s shown digust at himself for what he’s done.  He’s tried his best to show true remorse for his actions.  He’s spoken at Humane Society events and has convinced some good men that he’s trying to turn his life around.  All of this to no avail.  On espn.com this morning (Monday), the featured video is “Is Michael Vick Sincere or Coached?”  What does that matter?  His only duty to the public is to discontinue dog fighting and taking a public stance against it.  Whether or not he’s sincere is irrelevant.  If he says he is, then we have no right to doubt him unless his actions contradict his words.  A Muslim man naturally disagrees with the beliefs of Judiasm.  However, as long as said Muslim man isn’t declaring war on said Jewish man or hurting him in any way, it really shouldn’t matter what his beliefs are.  If a strait man disagrees with homosexuality but accepts it, who are we to tell him that he HAS TO agree with it.  So long as he is not gay bashing or otherwise harming those folks, he’s entitled to his own thoughts.  Similarly, what’s going on in Mike Vick’s head should not matter to us, as long as he isn’t hurting anyone further.

In my country, a court system exists.  The judicial system determines whether or not a person is guilty of a crime.  If a person is found guilty, he/she is indebted to society and must pay it back with jail time, community service, fines, etc.  Mike Vick served two years in prison.  He’s forfeited countless millions of dollars.  What more can the man do to repay his debt?  Can you imagine Mike Vick taking pictures with a golden retriever in a Kibbles and Bits commercial?  Neither can I.  If a convicted child molester is released from prison, I’m not going to line up to have him babysit my children.  But we don’t have to give our dogs to Mike Vick.  We’re only being asked to watch a football player.  The reason these guys get unworldly salaries is because they are one-in-a-million athletes paid to entertain us between the lines.  The public eye is something that comes with the territory but most athletes, I’m sure, would decline it if given the option.

Let the man continue paying his debt to society by making his public appearances in the community.  Let the man perform on the field like he knows how to.  If he can do these things, let the man live.  Give him a second chance.  If he can help the Philadelphia Eagles on the football field, which is what he’s being paid to do regardless what Jeff Lurie says, then Philadelphia fans should enjoy those contributions.  This isn’t Ghandi, Mother Theresa, or Barack Obama we’re talking about here.  We aren’t being asked to be fans of Mike Vick the person.  We’re being asked to support a football player, which again, is what it’s all about.

In Need of a Shakeup

July 20, 2009

This weekend, I spent some time hanging out with a couple of colleagues of mine who are leaving our company and DC for new, exciting endeavors.  One friend, Chris, is leaving this week to go on tour with a pop band called Parachute (find their music here and here) as a tour manager.  They sound like a better version of Maroon 5, if you ask me.  The other, Matt, is leaving for law school in Wisconsin.  I couldn’t be more excited for these guys as they pursue their dreams.  That said, I wonder what’s next for me.

Over the past couple years, just about all of my friends have had some sort of big life event(s) come up- moving abroad, moving jobs/cities, getting married, home purchases, going back to school, going to war, having children, etc.  I’ve been in DC for almost three years now and I’m beginning to wonder what’s next.  Suddenly, I look up at the calendar and it says July 2009.  It’s time for a shakeup.  I want something exciting to happen.  I need something exciting to happen.

I don’t know if this feeling stems from envy of my peers, boredom, or a just a simple desire for change, but I’m dying for something big to happen.  So… should I sit back and wait for something to come along or should I go out and make something happen?  I’m leaning towards the latter but what do I do?  I’ve tossed around the ideas of business school, moving to the west coast, moving to Chicago, and running for President.  I’m having trouble pulling the trigger on any of them.  Mostly, it’s been the fear of leaving my comfortable job and proximity to Philly (where my family is) that’s kept me here until now.  I don’t know if I have the cojones to take big risks anymore.  One of my best friends from work left the company last week without anything else lined up.  He knew he needed change and wanted to take time to think about it.  As much as I think he was stupid to do so, I very much envy him for having such guts.

I’m going to sit on this one for a while.  In the meantime, I’m open to suggestions (except for getting married, which I don’t want to do yet).  Are you moving to Toronto and want someone to go with you?  Let me know- I’ll apply to jobs there.  Are you going back to B-school in Texas and want company?  Let me know- I’ll try to get in to UT.  Are you thinking about starting a business and need a partner?  Pitch me your idea.  Had the same hunger a while back?  Tell me what you did to appease your appetite.  Will a good vacation do the trick?

I want something different to happen by the end of the year.  I don’t know how big of a change it’s going to be, or whether it’ll be good or bad.  I just know it’ll be different.  By the end of the year…

 

5 Random Thoughts

1- You’re truly a legend in music if your stuff still sounds good decades later.  Bob Marley, Michael Jackson, and Elvis stay on my Ipod.  I don’t think “Birthday Sex” will be on there in 2019.

2- It’s been 40 years since man landed on the moon.  How insane is that?  A human being actually put his feet on that big old glowing thing in the night sky.  It still sounds crazy to me.  I hope in my lifetime, trips to space become a reality for Joe Shmoe.

3- The Eagles are going to be soooooo good this year.  I’m fairly confident the Midgets will finish in 2nd place, the Foreskins in 3rd, and the Cowgirls in last with fewer than 5 wins.  The wheels are falling off in Big D.

4- I hope the Phillies get Roy Halladay, but it better not cost them Kyle Drabek and J.A. Happ.  Offer Taylor, Donald, Marson, Knapp, and Carrasco and be done with it.  Don’t get too desperate, Ruben.  If that package isn’t getting it done, move on to Cliff Lee, Jared Washburn, or Roy Oswalt.  Drabek and Happ should be in your rotation for the next 6-10 years.

5- I’m planning on catching Parachute in Philly or DC, or maybe both.  Support!  www.weareparachute.com and www.myspace.com/weareparachute.

Football Season is Coming…

July 14, 2009

I was not an early adopter of xanga or facebook and I’ve refused to fall in to the trap of myspace and twitter.  So it might come as a suprise to some that I’ve started to write this blog.  Living in DC, I find myself far away from friends with whom I’ve had so many of my best conversations.  I hope this will help me to simulate real conversations with you all about the topics I care most about.

If you know me at all, you know that my passion is sports.  I’ll play them, talk them, argue them, read about them, and dream them.  My favorite team is, of course, the Philadelphia Eagles.  In two weeks, training camp opens and we’ll learn more about what we have this season.  Personally, I’m so excited about the upcoming season.  I think the Eagles have upgraded their offense and while their defense has lost some key leadership, may have gotten more athletic during this offseason.  So why the negativity?  Why does it seem like I have to try to convince my fellow Eagles’ fans to get excited about the birds?

When the Phillies won the world series last year, I thought the entire mindset of Philadelphians would shift towards optimism and excitement about their teams.  During this current Phillies’ season, I’ve learned that negadelphians will always be around, no matter how many championships the city wins.  The Phillies are sitting in first place, the Eagles, Sixers, and Flyers all went to the playoffs last year and are all getting better.  Weren’t we the fans crying for “just one championship” just a year ago?

Look, I’m not expecting the city to swoon over the Eagles before they win a championship.  But let’s take objective looks at the team and realize this is a very capable team:

The O-line is better with Peters, Stacy Andrews, and a healthy Shawn Andrews.  The receivers are a year older and better, even before the addition of Maclin.  At TE, Celek will be a year older and a year better.  Behind DMac, McCoy provides an explosive backup to BWest.  On D, they’re flush with talent and depth along the line.  Their linebackers are solid, if not spectacular.  Samuel, Hobbs, and Brown are a solid goup of corners.  Mikell is spectacular and we’ll see about Demps.  All in all, I just can’t see this team being worse than it was last year, when they went to the NFC championship game.

I’m open to debate but I truly believe this is a Super Bowl contender.  Health will always come in to play but assuming all other things equal, this team is a Super Bowl contender.

5 Random Thoughts

1- Work league softball is so much fun.  My team, The Big Units have won two city championships and I can’t get enough.

The Big Units

2- We’ve got a survivor pool starting for the football season.  $20 bucks gets you in.  Pick 1 NFL team to win each week, regardless of spread.  Your team wins, you move on.  Your team loses, you’re out.  Once you pick a team, you cannot use them again.  There should be 50-100 people in this league so there will be good money it it for the winner.

3- Gym memberships are too expensive to let go to waste.  I need to get back in there.

4- My desk is a mess and I need some major summer cleaning.

5- I love the IPhone 3Gs.  I think if I could change my out of office notice from my phone, it would be perfect.